Wednesday, February 14
My definition of LOVE
Find arms that will hold you at your weakest... Find eyes that will see you at your ugliest Find a heart that loves you at your worst... It is then when you find true Love Love isn't it a very subjective term? For you love is a sweet emotion, it is a driving force, it is when you meet someone and decide that yes this is the person you can spend your life with... But have you ever thought that you could spend your life with your best friend because that person understands you, cares for you, knows your want and desires... Can’t you? Won’t it be the same thing if you think love to be caring, understanding, knowing you… You can spend your entire life with anyone you are comfortable with, you accept that person as a part of your life, so what exactly is love then? Is it a mere feeling or another term for close friendship companionship? We often hear “ I love you’ ‘I can’t live without you’ but for some reason the relation with that person may not work out. The following time period skipped, one finds another person and the story repeats itself… I want to ask something, till yesterday you couldn’t live without that person, life was unthinkable, only that person completed you, then how could you fall in ‘love’ again? Does love change hands? Is the feeling reversible? You start hating or despising the person you once loved all that goes up in smoke, just like that? No what you call is not love it is companionship… You act as a companion best friends… You need each other to combat loneliness, but there is no such thing as love… Why let someone come so close to u that that person can hurt u? y get in a meaningless relation
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i dont totally agree with u.
i agree tht statements like 'I love you’ ‘I can’t live without you’... are just momentary and not truth.
but wat i feel is.. u dont let smone come close to u. it just happens.
and sm relations r not meaningless till the time ur not selfish. the day u become selfish u will find relations meanionless.
oh my gawd......! its fantastic...!
i would like 2 add 1 mor thin tho.. love isnt really very voluntary...(i am sure all the people who are "in love" would agree"...u go with the flow and then you get lost in it.. and true love is when you are lost there is this hand holding yours... and for the people who can hate the person they once loved..for some or the other reason they know that it just wasnt or even worse its just to camouflage that it acyually was love....!i think you already know what i mean and if you want a conversation on that...you know my numbr!
amazing man...too gud...!!!! i totally agree wth wat u wrote at last sayn...y let some1 cme so close to ya tat d person can hurt ya...bt thn ppl dun do it voluntarily also...it jus happns u knw...wen ppl r in a close relationshp whether its "love" or "frndshp"..thy dun thnk wat wil hapn in d future...thy jus go on wth d flow...so no1 can say wat luv is...its a feeling wch comes on its own...
The "define love" was written at a time when I was trying to merge rationality with emotions. But later on I realized that it is very difficult (might be impossible also) that rationality and emotions go hand by hand.
Nowadays,even to me the post seems comical one rather than serious stuff.
But now,do you see it as a comical stuff or something weird?
It seems you have somehow connected the
two comments together.
Well,the guy was not hit low on emotions
but yes he was trying to get a definition
for emotion called love. He believed that
love is there for ever but felt that in
practicality this is not the case (He was
not involved himself) ,so was trying to
arrive at a conclusive definition which
is in sync with results.
Until now he is not successful in his
endeavour.
Hi...I agree with you that when we see whatever happening is not as per
what we believed..We start evaluation
and ask ourselves what went wrong?
You said that there is nothing called love and only companionship. But there might be one more explanation that what
you assumed to be love was indeed companionship and there exists some
emotion called love. Probably love is much more than what we think it is in our daily lives.
It occurred to me that my earlier post might look like undermining your thoughts or emotions. But that was not what my
intentions were . By the way do you like
reading ?
Hi..Frankly speaking, on reading your post and comments I thought that you were the protagonist of the post and thats where it occurred to me that it might look like undermining your emotions.
Definitely, for a person u hardly know or u have hardly met it should be termed mere likeliness or attraction nor love ( The hypothesis is on the basis of some results,theory is still not clear).
Well, as far as being intriguing is concerned probably the reason is, I think a lot and I try to write it in as few words as possible.Hence many of the details do not come into picture. The withholding is not deliberate.
Regarding Ur posts and comments, they
give a clear picture of ur thoughts. U think a lot and want your thoughts to be discussed, hence they are there on this blog. Any comments?
Well, I would like you to give me an example where you felt that I have held things for some reason. And If it is something different from what I have already mentioned ,I would
let u know.
When you pour your feelings in public domain,Somewhere you have the feeling that these are my thoughts and I want some reaction to them( You might not want a lengthy discussion like the one going on). Otherwise you might have written them in a diary only accessible to you.
On a lighter note, Psycho ppl also want to talk about things they are psychic about.
Is it not?
He he he... I mean come on yaar the psychi till it doesnt rub of on other s it really doesnt matter ;)
No when i started my hands at a blog it was too vent out my anger and write things which i wd have been dead but spoken abt... Not many of my frnds know abt this.. But honestly trust me I am enjoyin our discussion, though i really dont know abt u, but i really love this discussion!
Had I not liked the discussion, I would not have pestered you with all the comments.I like ideas and thoughts being
discussed about.
"to vent out my anger through the blog"
that's one of the examples of what I said
"The vent can be an activity also."
Anyway,you haven't answered my question about giving me an example where
it seems I am hiding things? It's always good to know yourself...Isn't it?
No u don't pester me, so lets keep this formality aside and agree upon we discuss it coz we want to.. :D
Ya now i get ur activity..I hadnt related the activity to my blog writing :)
Its not abt hiding things its abt with-holding your views... Like I think u understood San a lot but u didnt express a lot... stuff like that...
was plannin to read but u see the color lyk hurting my eyes...change it baby
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